Ask them and listen carefully to her answers. DO NOT DEFEND yourself. Write her answers down. Later type/sign/give to her as a commitment to honor/cherish her.
1) Is there anything I can do to cause you to feel more loved?
2) Is there anything I can do give you confidence and the desires of your heart?
3) Is there anything I can do to cause you to feel more secure?
4) Is there anything I can do to cause you know that I hear/fully understand your heart?
5) Is there anything I can do to cause you to have confidence in our future direction?
6) Is there any characteristic I need to strengthen or change?
7) Is there anything I can do to any characteristic you want me to help you develop?
8) What achievement in my life would bring you greatest joy?
9) What can I do to be more like Christ?
10) What mutual goal(s) would you like us to reach together?
11) Have I missed anything you'd like to talk about?
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